How do i know my partner is cheathing

April 19th, 2007 by itsonlychand

Spotting a cheat How can you tell if your lover is cheating on you?

Short of hiring a private detective, it is difficult, however there are some classic signals that can give the game away.

The signs Most relationships experts agree on one thing; if your loved one is cheating on you there are likely to be big changes in their behaviour.

Look out for:

Changes in emotional patterns: Getting angry or cold and distant for no obvious reason, or buying gifts and saying they love you if they've never done things like that before;

Changes in sexual behaviour: They may want much less or more sex than usual, or use new sexual techniques they didn't learn from you;

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Male or Female Condom ?

April 18th, 2007 by itsonlychand
    The Female Condom

If you're sick of using regular condoms while having sex, but still want to be protected against sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) like HIV, the female condom might be the answer.

The female condom (also called the internal condom) is about 6.5 inches long and at each end there is a flexible ring. One end is closed and that's the ring that gets inserted into your vagina, much like you would insert a diaphragm - this ring is also removable. At the other open end, the ring stays outside the vulva at the entrance to the vagina.

What are the BENEFITS?

  • Female condoms actually protect you better against STDs than male condoms because they cover more of your mucous membranes.
  • It's made out of polyurethane, so if you have a latex allergy, this is another option for you besides polyurethane condoms. Condoms made out of polyurethane also conduct heat better.
  • They contain no spermicide which tend to irritate many women when they have sex.
  • It's 95% effective at preventing pregnancy when used correctly.
  • Oil-based lubricants can be used with the female condom.
  • It can be inserted up to 8 hours before you have sex.
  • Since the inner ring is removable, you can take it out and use the internal condom for anal intercourse. That's why it's considered a good option for protection against HIV and other STDs.

Want to know what the DISADVANTAGES are? Then  

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